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KathyK's avatar

You’re not alone although I know it can feel that way. I’ve been living with chronic pain, fatigue and life long spontaneous joint dislocations from Ehlers Danlos Syndrome hypermobile type. My geneticist said that to me “it’s not cancer...” so no one is spending any money on finding answers even though it can kill you. So I’m now at the end of my 66 years on the planet because defective collagen has evolved into spontaneous kidney failure. I’ve been left behind by family and friends who don’t understand chronic illness because “you look great” People think they’re helping by saying that but they don’t realize they are invalidating everything your going through, especially the never ending intractable pain no one can see.

Anyway, my thoughts are with you and thank you for sharing your story with us. 🙏🏻

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Lou Belle's avatar

I've sometimes found myself thinking that if I had cancer, at least I would actually know what it was, and treatment options more clear. Having a chronic illness that no one seems to be able to pinpoint and therefore know exactly how to treat is terrifying in its own way. Comparison is never the answer.

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